f you want to call it coming out, that was sort of accidental in a way. I just thought everyone knew. I never really hid anything, but I never said anything. And that’s one of the things, I think, when you keep this wonderful part of yourself bottled up, you don’t get to have that experience of, “Here’s my wife, here’s my child.” You don’t get those experiences — and those are the experiences that make us. Those are the connections that make us as people.